For Your Pleasure

7 Things You Didn't Know About Porn

2011-10-18T12:07:00.000-07:00

Source: Cosmo

1. Women get turned on by monkey sex

Think guys are aroused by just about anything? It's actually the other way around. Researchers from Northwestern University showed men and women videos of nude actors exercising, masturbating, or having sex. They found that men have pretty clear "targets" — straight dudes got hot looking at ladies, while gay dudes were turned on by men. It's fuzzier for chicks, though. Even if they didn't report feeling in the mood, straight women experienced physical arousal after viewing pretty much any kind of sexual stimuli — guy-on-guy porn, girl-on-girl action, and even bonobo monkeys getting frisky.

2. Utah is the perviest state

A Harvard study found that Utah had the most online porn subscriptions per every 1,000 broadband users. (The state with the lowest rate of porn subscriptions? Montana.)

3. The body part that men focus on when watching porn is the woman's — wait for it — face

You read that right: eyes and lips win out over boobs and a badonkadonk, according to an eye-tracking study from the Kinsey Institute at the University of Indiana. The researchers speculated that guys look at women's faces to gauge how turned on they are.

4. The pill affects whether you go for the money shot

More from the Kinsey Institute study: Women not on hormonal birth control (like The Pill) zoned in on people's genitals when shown a pornographic pic. But women taking The Pill were more interested in contextual elements such as the background, or what the actors are wearing. Researchers hypothesize it's because Pill-free women have a higher sex drive.

5. All — literally all — men watch it

A researcher from the University of Montreal wanted to study whether pornography has an impact on guys' sex lives. There was just one teensy problem though: To form a control group, he searched for men in their twenties who'd never consumed porn...and he couldn't find a single one.

6. Most guys get into it before puberty

The majority check out porn for the first time at age 10, according to the same University of Montreal study.

7. Presidential elections put people in the mood

Talk about dirty politics. After President Bush won the election in 2004, red states saw a jump in porn-related Internet searches. And after President Obama won in 2008, blue states went on a porn-search frenzy. Researchers from Villanova and Rutgers University believe it's because being on the winning team creates a surge of testosterone, which spikes sex drive.

Coming Soon!

2011-01-15T18:19:00.000-08:00

Which Logo do you like best? I know they both need work but which on should I start working on?

Coming Soon: ASK ERIN and YOU AND YOUR LOVE videos.

2011-01-15T16:50:00.000-08:00

I have started making the preparations to go back to school! YAY me! I will be becoming a Sexologist. I am so excited about this and I will need all the support I can get. This is not going to be easy but it is exactly what I need and want to do.

I will also start taking question from you about what I think about sexual issues, I have called it Ask Erin, for now. I don't really like it but it will do for now. The question are confidential and I will never mention names when I am giving my opinion. I am not claiming to be a professional by any means, I have lots of research under my belt and I am reasonably experienced(wink, wink). I have helped many couple in a private setting work through issues. I am in love with what I do and truly have the passion for it. I do not mind talk and going "there" with anyone. All questions can be submitted by email,text, facebook, myspace and twitter.

The You and Your Love is also another series of videos I will be putting out that are mild to wild with info on all things sexual. I am so excited about this. I know there are a million youtube videos out there with all the same information that I too will be putting out there but I have some following and I want to educate people too. I love my loyal follower and want them to get the info from me. I hope you all enjoy and please let me know of any topics you want covered in either set of videos..

Being a sex toy consultant.

2011-01-11T14:13:00.000-08:00

Many people look at direct sales and think it’s just a bunch of pushy sales people. I’d like to offer you a different view to become a sex toy party consultant with For Your Pleasure. Not only have I had the opportunity to build a business, but I also am offering change to couples and their relationships. I’m teaching them how sex toys can be tools for their bedroom, and I’m teaching them that it’s normal to experience bumps in the road when it comes to sex as a couple. And my products sell themselves when I share them. Not only that, but sex is always going to be there, and people are always going to be having sex, and sex toys seem to be recession proof, so you’ll always have a stable business going.

Not only will you have an easy selling product, but you’ll make a better commission than with most direct sales companies. Sex toys pay more than Tupperware, Lia Sophia, and most jewelry plans. You have a choice to start at 35% commission, 40% commission, or 50% commission with For Your Pleasure based on what type of business you’d like to start and grow in to. For Your Pleasure gives you the flexibility to be able to choose from the beginning.

Let’s take a look at the different programs that For Your Pleasure offers:

First we will start with our Vanilla program which allows you to start at 50% commission. You can still recruit and earn commission off of your team. What’s the catch? You’re not eligible for sales bonus or management bonus. To help you understand take a peek at this chart.

Now, take a look at our Professional Program. For Your Pleasure offers this option for those who plan to develop a large business over time and would like to be eligible for sales, and management bonuses. You can work your way up to 50% commission, but it doesn’t happen right away like the Vanilla Program. Take a peek at the chart below to help you understand:

When you talk to other companies they always tell you the commission you’re going to make, the trips, and the rewards, but they don’t tell you the catches to all of that. So I’m going to put all of it out there so you know completely up front what the catches are.

There is a monthly fee of $29 due on the 28th of every month. This covers your credit card processing and your website.
There is a $25 application fee, and shipping costs when you submit an application
You must qualify with $1,000 in sales in your first 60 days
If you’re on the Vanilla Program you must do $300 in sales every three months to remain active. If you’re on the Professional Program you must do $150 in sales every 6 months to remain active.

That’s it! So here’s the benefits of joining the For Your Pleasure team.

Your host benefits are completely free. They do not come out of your commission. Everything your host gets for hosting a party with you doesn’t cost you a penny.
Amazing host benefits so people are excited to book a party with you.
Drop shipping available to your customer so you never have to deliver an order, or reship an order. The cost to your customer is $5.95 if they’d like it shipped to the host, and $8.95 if they’d like it shipped directly to their home. Packages delivered via FedEx.
Men are always welcome at our parties which opens up the chance for you to conduct couples’ parties where other companies don’t.
Sales and management bonuses that can increase your commission to 60% (if joining the Professional Program)
No inventory required
No merchant account required. For Your Pleasure includes credit card processing in the monthly fee you pay ($29.00)
Full website included in your monthly fee that allows your customers to shop online
Unlimited, ongoing training
Do you have catalogs? We have an amazing catalog that showcases our over 1,000 items we offer. Take a peek 2010 Catalog.
Incentives such a yearly trip, free products, cash, and much more when you join For Your Pleasure

As you can see, we might not be a big name company like Passion Parties, or Pure Romance, but we offer you so much more, and take so much less of your commission to operate your business.

So I’m sure by now you’re asking how you can get started! Here’s some easy steps to help you be on yout way to starting your new business. If you still have some more questions I urge you to take a peek at my FAQ for people considering the business. If that still doesn’t answer your questions then fill out this form and I’ll give you a call within 12 hours.

Decide which program you would like to start with; either the Vanilla or Professional program pictured above.
Decide what type of budget you have to get started. Keep in mind there is the $25 application fee, and shipping costs to add on to the cost of your kit. Please see a list of our available kits here. We often have kit specials going on so be sure to check out our current specials.

I’ve helped train hundreds of consultants. I’ve been the education coordinator for another direct sales company, and I also teach my consultants how to offer sex education at their parties with knowledge I’ve gained becoming a sex educator in my area. I’m available to my team at all times and do my best to help you build a beautiful business if that’s what you desire. If you desire to work part time and just earn some extra vacation cash, I cater my help to whatever you may need. I look forward to working with you.

The Importance Of Lingerie

2010-11-14T06:06:00.000-08:00

When you want to impress your sweetheart, you want to wear sexy lingerie to bed. Sexy lingerie makes you look and feel special. Women who wear lingerie, even when alone, say that it makes them feel sexier and more confident.

You do not have to have a perfect body to wear sexy lingerie. If you look in a lingerie catalogue or go online, you will see that lingerie comes in all sizes. What is important is how you feel about your body. If you feel good about your body, then you will feel good about wearing lingerie. When it comes to these garments, it is all about attitude and confidence.

There are many different types of sexy lingerie that you can wear. This ranges from bed wear to underwear. When it comes to wearing sexy under garments, most women say that they feel a lot better about themselves when they are wearing sexy underwear under their clothes. This gives them a feeling of confidence.

The same measure of confidence is also apparent when you are wearing sexy night clothes. When you wear sexy lingerie to bed, you are more than just being inviting to your mate, you are exhibiting confidence that most men find hard to resist.

No matter what type of lingerie you like, you can find it when you go online. It ranges from leather to lace - the choice of what you wear depends upon your mood as well as your personality. Never feel that you do not have the body to wear lingerie that makes you feel sexy and attractive.

If you want to surprise your mate, one way to do so is to wear something sexy either under your clothes or to bed. You can find a vast array of sexy lingerie when you go online shopping. One of the best aspects about shopping for lingerie online is that you do not have to be embarrassed about buying it in the store. No matter what you wear, it is sure to make your sweetheart happy.

Most people agree that women tend to do more for other people rather than for themselves. It can be difficult for any woman to actually treat herself to something nice so that she feels special. One way that you, as a woman, can do something for yourself is to get yourself some nice lingerie. While sexy lingerie will definitely appeal to your mate, it will also appeal to you. You will have more confidence in yourself, your self esteem will be raised higher and you will be doing something just for you.

If you want to boost your spirits up and please your mate at the same time, you should go online and look for some sexy lingerie. No matter what your taste, you are sure to find something that will please you. Lingerie is the perfect way to show yourself that you care enough about yourself to give yourself a little something special. You can find just about any type of garment in any size when you shop online right from your own computer.

November Kit Promotions

2010-11-07T13:55:00.000-08:00

We have the right program
for any pocketbook!

Once again in November choose how to get started in your very own FYP Business!
1. $50.00 (Catalog Plan) Build Your Kit Over Time.
You will start out with a 30% buying discount.
Once you have reached $500 in a 60 day period we will bump you up to 35%.
Once you have reached $1000 over a 60 day period we will bump you up to 40%
Kit Contents:
• 10 Catalogs • 10 Body & Spa Brochures • 50 Customer Order Forms
• Training DVD • Product & Business Manual CD
(All other fees apply and forms (must use special application) must be submitted
ie., access fees, cc authorization form, signed application, etc.) $25 Application Fee required.
2. $99 kit purchase
$500 qualification in first 30 days or 4 qualified shows, whichever comes first.
Kit includes:
Kissable Shave Cream • Caress Me Candle • Hot Heart Massager
Nympho’s Desire • FYP Waterslide • Mighty Tidy Toy Cleaner
Shunga Sensation Balm• Shunga Aphrodisiac Oil • Shunga Massage Oil
Shunga Sweet Snow • Shunga Chocolate Body Topping• Ro-80 mm Bullet
Shunga Soft Moves • Magna Man Magnetic Ring • Osaki Beaver • Succulent Blossom
10 FYP Catalogs• 50 FYP Order Forms
FYP Product Labels (for in-house labelling) • FYP Business and Product Manual on CD
FYP Training DVD • 12 Asst. Erasers
(All other fees apply and forms (must use special application) must be submitted
ie., access fees, cc authorization form, signed application, etc.) $25 Application Fee required.
3. Regular priced kits
$1,000 qualification in first 90 days or 6 qualified shows whichever comes first.
(All other fees apply and forms (must use special application) must be submitted
ie., access fees, cc authorization form, signed application, etc.) $25 Application Fee required.

$99 Kit Special

2010-08-01T19:25:00.000-07:00

In August it’s all about Pleasure!
$99 Kit Special
($25 Application Fee & $25 S/H Apply. Must have a completed application with ALL forms submitted during August 2010.
*No extensions are available for promotions and must kit qualify within 60 days. **No kit commissions apply.)

Kit Contents:
#13489 Kissable Shave Cream $15.00 ~ #13066 Caress Me Candle $17.00
#5060 Hot Heart Massager $17.00 ~ #7750 Nymphos Desire $16.00
#14560 FYP Waterslide $16.00 ~ #13770 Ro-80 mm Bullet $19.00
#13562 Magna Man Magnetic $22.00 ~ #7930 Osaki Beaver $42.00
#10710 Succulent Blossom $32.00 ~ #7070 Mighty Tidy Toy Cleaner $10.00
#P38 Shunga Display $39.00
( Sensation Balm, Aphrodisiac Oil, Massage Oil, Sweet Snow, Chocolate Sauce, Soft Moves)
#10cat 10 Catalogs $17.00 ~ #50cust 50 Order Forms $5.00
#kitlables Kit Labels $8.45 ~ #S15 Manuals $10.00
#S51 Invites $4.00 ~ #S92 Erasers $1.75

Sasi...wow!!

2010-08-01T18:33:00.000-07:00

Allow me to introduce you to the wonderful world of personalized pleasure!

SaSi is the ultimate oral pleasure toy and is the closest sensation to the human tongue! If you enjoy oral, this toy is for you! This toy literally was designed to simulate the tongue and the movement it would make during oral play. Under this silky smooth silicone cover you will see a small nub that moves in many directions while vibrating and pulsating!

What is even more amazing about this product is that it memorizes your favorite settings… so the next time you want some SaSi time — it’s ready and waiting for like a good lover! Now, because this is such an amazing toy, you would think you would have to stock up on batteries but you don’t! It’s completely rechargeable and even has international chargers so you can bring it along no matter where you are! Charge SaSi up for 2 hours and enjoy 2 hours of fun!

Keeping SaSi clean is easy. Simply unclip the case, slip off the silicone skin and bathe it in warm water and soap. Just make sure the naked SaSi does not come into contact with water. This item is only available to those who host a party!

There is nothing more enjoyably classy … than SaSi!

This product is only available to our fabulous hosts! Are you ready to book a party yet?

** SaSi is now included in all business kits!

2010 Catalogs

2010-04-14T09:47:00.000-07:00

There are so many new products I want to try! I just can not have them all and show them all. TO EXPENSIVE! I have tried some and my favorites include the new Spa Line...great stuff. and the We Vibe.

Introducing

The World's First

Couples Vibrator!

Unique in design, this revolutionary product is the first ever vibrator that can be used while making love. The innovative design allows for both external clitoral and internal g-spot stimulation for women engaging in both solo and partner play.

The We-Vibe is hands free, strap free and wireless. Created from 100% medical grade silicone, it’s soft, comfortable and easy to use. Treat yourself and your partner to A New Dimension In Pleasure™.

Valentines Day is coming

2009-12-16T15:37:00.000-08:00

Book your Valentines day party in January. All hostesses who reach $300 in sale will receive a Hot Heart Massager at the party!

January Parties for the BIG V-DAY

2009-12-02T13:38:00.000-08:00

Host a Valentines Day Party in January! Here are the exciting hostess specials for January just for the most romantic day of the year.

Ewa Sex and City Pre Wedding party

2009-08-30T07:45:00.000-07:00

August Newsletter

2009-08-01T13:09:00.000-07:00

I am very excited. My name was mentioned in the For Your Pleasure newsletter for my June single show sales. Once again big props go out to Julianne and the AOII girls.
OXOXOXOX

$ 99 !!!!

2009-08-01T13:06:00.001-07:00

ECU take 2: The party continues on

2009-08-01T12:11:00.000-07:00

I traveled to Greenville, NC to the Eastern Carolina University area Friday the 24th. The AOII girls are always so worth the 4 hour drive. Not only is it a great night for me but they are my entertainment. Ashley was the hostess for her own birthday party. I was invited to go downtown after the party and be part of the fun. I just have fallen in love with these girls and I am looking forward to my next visit there. I am actually looking for a lady to take that area from me. I am the one of three For Your Pleasure rep in the Charlotte area.

My first party

2009-07-18T18:37:00.000-07:00

I had my very first party of my own, I was the hostess. I sent out fifty invites and posted it on myspace and facebook. I had 6 people come, it was held at It's Party Time in downtown Concord. It was a good experience and I got to give my guest one on one time and that is nice to be able to do. I also got 3 parties off of my party. So it was a great evening.

Ducky reviews another product FYP carries

2009-07-09T10:53:00.000-07:00

Please let me know if you want to order this product.

Sugar Lips review

2009-07-08T09:46:00.001-07:00

AOII

2009-06-09T15:14:00.000-07:00

This was my best party so far!!! The ECU sorority girls ROCKED!!! I was invited back so that is even more exciting. WOOOOHOOOO!!! See you next month girls!

I am a social networking fool.

2009-05-31T14:35:00.000-07:00

I am doing all I can to my business going. I am on Myspace, Facebook, Twitter and Cafemom. I am out there. I am loving what I am doing and I am good at what I do. Please find me on any of the networks you are on.

These crazy chicks!!

2009-05-06T09:02:00.000-07:00

Fantastic host Hilary's Party for her bride friend.

Smooth running.

2009-04-23T10:55:00.000-07:00

March's Party was wonderful and fun. Thanks to a great host, Beth.

Romance, Slumber, Passion, or Naughty night with the girls.

2009-03-11T04:48:00.000-07:00

Whatever you call it, it is just plan FUN. We do it all from:

Bachelorette Parties
Bridal Showers
PMS Party
Summer Pool Party
Surprise Parties
Divorce Celebrations
Slumber Parties
Exotic Nights Show
Party Gals Night Out
Couple Night Out
Holiday Themes
Sex Toy Party

For Your Pleasure offers one of the most lucrative hostess incentives in the industry. Your hostess credits begin with receiving 10% of your total party sales in FREE products. Then you also receive Bonus Spending Money, Hostess Exclusive savings and monthly Hostess Specials, Booking credits and Buying Customer discounts. On an average $500 party, our hostesses can earn $200 - $350 in FREE and Discounted Products!!

Please contact me for more information.

I am now open for business

2009-02-26T06:28:00.000-08:00

I am very excited to report that I am now a romance party girl. I will be serving the Charlotte area and loving it. I have been wanting to do this for years and finally decided that I was tired of saying it and not doing it. So here I am lots of research later waiting on my kit and first parties.